Reasons why Bobbo will always be my homeboy. / William Reed (Homie/schoolmate)
Bobbo never put on a front for anybody.He was always himself and he was just an all around cool person to hang out with and was always makin people laugh. I sometime have talked to John and Josh and few other family members about the loss we all have suffered with but i don't think most people really knew how upset i was when he died. I'll never forget Robert Flynn and if there is a heaven i'm sure he is there lookin down and happy that so many people love and miss him. As for the Flynn family keep your heads up cuz we will all one day be reunited. Much Love and Respect -William Reed Close
Angels/ Angelica Grover (Twinless Twin)
The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God. ~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
the truth (even tho it might hurt) / Shorty (every day friend(rain or shine) )Read >>
the truth (even tho it might hurt) / Shorty (every day friend(rain or shine) )
bobbo, i've tryed everything, everything i can think of but i just cant stop,stop regreting that night, i wish so mush, i wish u'd have stayed, stayed and and smoked stayed and chilled just stayed
but i dont need to talk about that i'd rather talk about all the wonderfull times you,sari,mike and i had all thowes nights we all played dominos or cards(weed)or just chilled. all the times we went to the park but i need you to let everyone know, know it was u, u could have stayed at our house or porkeys house but you dident please i'm tired of people fighting and blaming. and let everyone know if itwouldent of happend u'd still be here and ud still be w/ sari. because u 2 would always be togther. threw the fighting and pissing(lol) and all the beer it was always clear u 2 did love each other(in your own way)and u both love Elli. all the rummers going around about sari i know there not true because YOU WOULDENT LET NONE OF THEM HAPPEN. if any one has anything to say about this matter come and talke to me because mike and i were w/ u and sari every day and we were all best friends(all on the same team, the tit team) ................................ Close
all bobbo friend / Mommy
this is for all bobbo friend. please feel free to call me or come visit me and john you kids are like my own. i need you to help me through this we all are having a bad time. bobbo didnt need to die. we need to poll all together . i love you all selma (Mom) Close
My sincerest condolences / Blanca Gammons (visitor)Read >>
My sincerest condolences / Blanca Gammons (visitor)
Selma Flynn, Thank you for visiting my son's memorial site. I can so understand you pain. The only advise I can give you is this:
It is God's love passing through our hearts that makes life count and leads us on to Heaven.
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:18 NIV...
You have not lost your son, but he has transended and crossed the mysteries of life... Sit silent and still and you will receive subtle messages from him letting you know he is alright. We come to this world to learn and to teach others. By Bobbo's death, there are others that will learn from him. Be strong for him and allow his death to have some meaning. He is not gone but only in the physical. He is energy around you and yours. That is how my Jonathan is to me. We need to be strong that is what both Bobbo and Jonathan would have wanted. I will keep you in my prayers and as God to watch over you and help you during these very difficult times. Love... God Bless... Blanca Close
Sorry about your loss!! / Amy Day (Friend)
I am so sorry for your loss of your son,uncle,brother and anyhting else this young man was too anyone. I know how you all feel, I lost my Sis, in June of 2004, too Domestic Voilence and her husband was a arrested for it, we start our court hearing this Thursday July 21-22, PLEASE keep us in your prayers.
Ann~ Was a beautiful young woman, 34, mother of 2 children. I am now raising her son.
ALL MY PRAYERS GO OUT TOO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. Please, pray for us over the next couple of days the trail will be hard. Give your kids hugs and kisses as much as you can.
Love, Amy Day Close
My heart goes out to you / Sarah Burns (Visitor)Read >>
My heart goes out to you / Sarah Burns (Visitor)
You visited my sons website and left a lovely message, thankyou. It has been almost 8 months sinse Matthew went Home and still not a day goes by where I dont think of him and miss him, Im sure you are the same with Bobbo. It hurts so much to lose a child, no pain cant ever come close to it and there are no words I or anybody else can say to make you feel better or make this ok. We just have to carry on as best we can and get through this life in the knowledge that one day we will be with our babies again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Another grieving mum xx
“When I come to the end of the road and the sun has set for me. I want no nights in a gloom – filled room, why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little but not too long, and not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that we once shared, miss me… but let me go. For this is a journey we all must take, and each must go alone. It’s all a part of the Masters plan, a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick of heart, go to the friends we know. And bury your sorrow in doing good deeds, miss me… but let me go”
You here? Ok well if not now, I know you will be checking in to see what's going on. I tried to do what I could so your mom and dad could talk to Ellie on your Mom's B-day, with no luck. Sari, is on the run again......*sigh* watch her close Bobby, make sure she takes care of them kids, till the right thing is done. Why would anyone want to continue to pour salt in the wounds of the people that love you, and claim to have loved you or even cared about you, I'll tell you why I think, be it right or wrong, because she is a selfish little BITCH. I really have tried the best I could not to sling dirt at her, but she keeps doing dirty things! What is it that she hopes to prove? I mean, anyone with half a brain would know that the more people that love and nourish your children with that love, the better people they become. But NO! not Sari, she wants to keep running and keep her children away from a family that loves her and needs her. You know why? I think I know why, because Sari is a Drama Queen, and she likes all this attention..... you see for a nasty ass hoe that trys to be the shit, negative attention is better than none at all, that would be why she had to sleep with half the frekkin town, because she has no sefl-esteem, feels like the piece of shit that she is, and needs attention to make her feel like something..... anything. I'll never understand, they say that oppisites attract, and with the two of you it is proof. You were kind, loving and happy, She is mean, hateful and miserable. You were full of life, She can only know death at this point. You were warm and bright, she is cold and dark, never in my life have I seen 2 people be more opposite. Never in my life no matter who tries to explain will I see what you seen in such a bucket of shit..... but that was you, no matter how bad something was you always found good. If only hindesight was 20/20........I miss you!
Gentle Hugs / Nancy (Tracy's Mom) (just another grieving mom )
Dear Selma, Thank you for visiting my daughter's website today...in 2 days it will be one year since she left us. Today I'm hurting so & to have you reach out when your own loss is so recent is a comfort. My daughter was ill & took her own life but she was also in an emotionally abusive marriage. I believe if not for my son-in-law she would have recovered & still be here with us today. So I understand the anger a person can feel...I still do.
We each have to grieve on our own timetable & our feelings are just that ours so if others don't like it so be it. We do what we have to just to get through each day.
What a wonderful tribute to your son this website is...the love your family & friends share for each other shines through.
mrs.selma/ Shorty (friends)
dear selma, i' m sorry i havent been out to see you but mike cant bear it.but the reason i wright is to tell you to keep your head up high,and i'm always thinking about you and ellie and most of all bobbo.i'm so sorry this had to be this way.you really are a hero in my eyes,you've been throw so much this past year. you have to be so strong. also, i wanted to tell you... bobbo always talked about how much he worried about you and big john, he always said "i dont know what i'd do without my mom and dad"or when ever we picked him up from your house he'd say" my mom knows how much i love them".and i remember when he told us about you beating sari up( riping her shirt) he thought i was the funnyest thing that ever happend(you know bobbo) wall i better leave room for others. i'll talk to you soon,(and if by any chance you take to him let him know we miss himsoo much). Close
I am truly sorry / Hazel Lee
Hi,Ms.Selma you wrote on my nieces web-site( Jaime Lee Sweatman). It is very hard to get through this it's something you never get over you just learn to live with.Jaime had a suv and over corrected & lost control she just left my driveway and maybe got a quarter of a mile. My sister had Jaime at 18 and I was 14 so Jaime was like mine,too.It is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. My sister speaks at schools to help teenagers on saftey issues and she is involved in a Mothers Support Group. It may be to early for you but being around other Mothers who have lost children has helped her b/c they can relate to each others feelings. I will keep you and your family in my prayers (honestly) I know alot of times thats said out of habit but if it wasn't for Jesus and me on my knees through out the day I don't know where I would be.Jesus is my best friend and he will never leave you or forsake you. Close
belly-butt and jabek / Mommy
well bobbo it is 1030 pm i was hoping sari would find in she heart to call me today so i could talk to the kids on my bday but she dont so bobbo it was very hard because you(CANT BE HERE)but sari but that is not reason why sari cant have call. i love sweet baby boy Close