Now our children take care of us / Joyce Noppers (mother to mother )
Mrs Flynn Thank you for leaving me such kind words. Bobbo looks so much like a friend of Cory's. In this world, I am almost sure they would have hung out. We grieve because we must, we know no other way. Our hearts have been ripped out it feels like. But we do go on, and I know that it is our children who give us the strength along with God. We were lucky to have had our boys for the time we did, some never even get to know their babies. But I am so greedy and want more. I wish for you and yours all the best and I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. Keep those memories alive. I know I will. Email me if you like, if you need to talk or just let it out. Thanks again and stay strong.
our angels / Michelle Jabs (friend)
Thank you Mrs. flynn for visiting my sons site. Sorry for your loss, I know the pain you are feeling.As I read the tributes about your son I see he was a special person. Bobbo is up there right now taking care of my son. My son is a little angel and bonno is up there teaching him how to fly. Its so hard to get over the pain but it helps to know that someone is watchingout for my son. It helps to know that our sons are with God and they will fell no more pain. Thanks for visiting my sons site its nice to know that people care and know that there are others who feel our pain. May God bless our children Close
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ONLY GOD KNOWS / MARILYN HINDS (A FRIEND OF JESUS )
HELLO MS FLYNN THANK FOR VISITING MY SON WEBSITE I KNOW IT MUST BE HARD FOR YOU TOO AS YOU KNOW DWAYNE ALSO IS GONE DUE TO THIS COLD AND CRUEL WORLD THAT WE LIVE IN OUR SONS ARE SPECIAL TO US MOTHERS WHO WOULD HAVE KNOW OUR SONS WOULD BE GONE SO SOON IT BREAKS MY HEART IT TOOK ME SIX MONTHS TO STOP THE TEAR FROM FLOWING NOW I AM OK I CAN GET THROUGH THE DAYS AND NIGHT OK GOD KNOWS I MISSED HIM GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR LOVE ONES THE HINDS FAMILY. THE BIBLE ---- REVELATION 21:4 AND HE SHALL WIPE AWAY ALL TEARS FROM THEIR EYES; AND THERE SHALL BE NO MORE DEATH, NEITHER SORROW, NOR CRYING, NEITHER SHALL THERE BE ANY MORE PAIN: FOR THE FORMER THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY. PRAISE GOD Close
Well I hope your 4th was the best ever, I sorta know that it was. It's hard for us to understand just how perfect your life is now, to try to rationalize the fact there is NO hurt, pain, hate or anger, only happiness. I still think of you often, now I smile at the memories more than I cry. Although the tears fall at times, I am trying to understand the bigger plan. I know you family still feels much pain, and that too saddens me. I wish there was a way to help make things easier for ALL of them. What I do know is that if you allow it to the hate will consume your soul (My family has been there). It is way to much energy to waste on such trash. When Bub was murdered, I spent countless hours plotting on how to avenage his death, and short of taking another life, found that only time could heal that wound. But with time, I found that loving Bub, and spending more of my time doing what I could do to preserve his memory was much more rewarding, and made me love him even more. There is still much hate in my heart for his murdered, but I try not to give him the satisfaction of thinking about what a rotten piece of shit he is. He is not worthy of my time or my thoughts. So now that is what I have begun to try to do with the trash that took your life. You are so MUCH more important than them, I would rather fill my thoughts of you, to make me smile, than allow them to breed even more hate in my heart. I believe in karma, as well as a higher power, I can only trust that in time (more sooner than later) they will ALL get theirs. In the meantime I will keep you and Bub in my heart and thoughts, and smile for you made the world a better place. Bobby, I have not heard ONE person say ONE bad thing about you, that truly is special. What an impact you had on the lives you've touched. What beautiful memories you have left for us to cherish........Thanx Take care of your family, for I know now that heavens take care of you, and so many others that I miss. Funny people talk about wishing they could see you one more time, or talk to you one more time, I see you and talk to you more now than I did when you traveled the earth. I still wish you were here in the physical form, but you are not gone from my life, not now, or ever.
1 month / Mommy
bobbo it has been a month sense you came in the door with that big smile yelling momma bobbo i have not seen belly butt i hope she is ok bobbo she was your hole life. bobbo i hope sari close her eye every nite and sees you laying there i hate her more then words can say bobbo kevin is going to walk . and i hope sari and kevin walk right in to hell and that is too good for them bobbo i love you and miss you more every day
i wish i was there to tell you goodbye
my blue bird is outside every day i know it is you
please look over belly butt and jakeb they love you bobbo
and you eddie and jemery better be good . i love you all Close
You Are Not Alone / Ferguson Vivian
Selma , I to feel your pain for as you know i lost my son Lionel on November 26,2004. Pray and believe GOD is our only strength and our might. If you want to talk email me at vee4bronxaol.com. Close
broken heart / Mommy
bobbo it has been 4 weeks tonite you went home bobbo i still cant beleave you are gone tonite i have aaron and modesty it is the first time i have had they all nite bobbo it is like it is a dream we will wake up and you will be with me bobbo you are my baby you was going to take care of me and daddy when we was old but now you are gone . bobbo you was going to have 5 kids for me but you have one that will not know her daddy just thing people tell her she will see you in her dream you had so many dream for her bobbo i know how you loved belly and jakeb it hurts more and more as the day go bye bobbo i was not there to hold you your last min of your life i could not tell you i loved you or kissed you or hugged you goodbye baby i love you more then life my heart is broke and it will be broken for until i am with you my sweet baby boy i hope the 2 will burn in hell for taking you away from me i love you my baby boy Close
COMFORT IN THE BLUE BIRD / AUNT ARLENE
selma told me of the blue bird that came and sat with her on her front porch the day they laid Bobby to rest, and that same bird came and sat on Sabrina's truck for the longest time, well I visited selma several days ago and I could hardly believe my eyes, that same blue bird that she found comforting was there sitting on a rock in her driveway. If there ever was a sign. I believe that bird is around to give comfort and peace to his family and to let them know even though he's gone, he will always be watching over them. Close
I Know how hard. / Rose Baldwin (Friend)
I wish there was something I could tell you to help ease the pain, but there is nothing. My prayers go out for you and your family. Robert sounds like a wonderful person. Your Son was taken on the day my son would have been 14yrs8mos old. I miss my son very much. I am not sure what to say because I do know exactly what you are feeling. Every emotion possible. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. All you can do is one day at a time. You never get over the lose, you learn to cope. Take Care of YourSelf. Close
I've got to say, reading all of which Robert's family and friends have written on this site, really touched me. I can tell that he was loved and that he was a very caring person. I know that it gets old hearing the same, "I'm sorry for you loss." And though I truely am sorry, I will pray for you and all that knew Robert. Thank you for taking the time and visiting the site I made for my best friend who was killed last November (dj-baldwin.memory-of.com). It means so much for someone, especially a total stranger, to take the time and do for others. Especially, when they have a feel of loss too. It goes to show of what a caring person you are. You and your family are all in my prayers, and I hope that one day, you will find peace and be able to smile for the time you were granted with Robert, instead of shedding a tear for the time you won't have. He's in a better place for eternity, you will have plenty of time with him when it's your time.
to many game / Mommy
bobbo my sweet baby boy it is going to be 4 weeks soon i still sit by the phone wishing it was you bobbo ii needed to hold you one more time and hug you bobbo i miss you so i hate the 2 that took you away from me i will hate them until the day i die bobbo you was to young i know the pain you was having in your life was not easy with same people baby i hope i did a good job bring you up you was the best daddy belly butt could have baby it is harder and harder i just wish that she loved you like you loved her my baby is gone belly butt daddy is gone because people like to play game all nite long Close
A poem for Bobbo / Aaron (AJ) Williams (Hommie)
I'm sorry it took so long; but i need a bit more time to mourn; You missed a really good friend if you never got to know him; So to light a candle I'll write this poem; When it came to sharing and caring he was model; His name is Robert but we called him bobbo; I remember the times when we'd chill and party; And even that one time when the cops came in charging; But no ones loss is as big as his daughter; Cause she will never again see her father; You were taken away in one night of tragety; We miss you dearly, we want you back badly; Close
What to do / Alicia Matney-Hayward (visitor)
I dont know the pain of the lose of a child! I do know the feeling of losing a brother ! I wish you all the best and I am here for you in prayer ! I know the loss is tremendous and the hurt is major and understanding is far from reach ! With all our love and prayes !!!!!! The Hayward - Anderson family Close
there will always be hurt and hate in our lives now!im not pointing fingers at no 1 person but yall know who you are and the guilt, if you have a concious, will eat you alive!!death will do you no good because you earthly torment will never be over i want yall to live as long as possible and i hope yall see bobbys face and the hurt and pain you caused him that day every time you close you eyes !!! bobby was a good hearted person who wanted to be loved !! i blame 2 people for his death one ended his life the other took his life away from him !!!!yes bobby was in the wrong for doin what he did but he didnt deserve to die for fighting for the love he belived in and thats what it was, he was in love and he wanted to find the love he thought he was losing!and he found her, and his life was ended for that reason !! its not fair, he had so much to live for, a wonderful little girl who will never know her daddy now! to all of his friends who read this i know yall hurt but now we have to start healing and keep ellie in our hearts and keep bobby heart and memory alive so the day ellie comes looking for answers we can all let her know how great of man bobby was and how much he loved her ,, life ,,famlly and his friends! we all need to pull together and help each other heal ! i love all of you for every thing yall have done for my family !! Close
bobbo my sweet baby boy it is summer you love summer time you love to take the kids to the park and go swimming bobbo it just is not right you are gone we love you so and same people is just out having a good time enjoying life it is bad you lost your life to make same people life happy Close
Tears have gone, and reality set in. You are gone. Wow. The valley that we grew up in and call "home" is a very strange place. People will be people, and animosity is always present. Why? Grudges must be held. Why? This is real shit! Please, does everyone have to be a fucking tough guy?!? Quit with the bullshit people. A great man is dead over some "tough-guy" shit! I am not there to live in that hell, or grieve properly. So I really don't know what is going on in that place called Sharon. I can be sure the same old shit is going on. Get it together. Would it actually kill people to give a damn!?! Heh, I guess it would... Just very hurt and disgusted is all. Bobbo we all love you man. Always have. You never fucked no one over. Not that I can recall. Even when the rest were up to shady shit, I don't remember you ever being a part of it... Bobbo's mother raised a hell of a man. .. I take pride in being a friend of Bobby. We will never forget.
Butterfly/ Melissa Gierchak (Friend)
hey Bobbo, I miss you. the other day as I sat at the beach, there was this butterfly. It would just sit by me or fly around my head. I kow it was you. My friend may have thought i was insane saying hi. But I know that it was you showing me that you're still here amongst us all. A beautiful Butterly just as you were and still are a beautiful person. We miss you dearly. Love you always. Close
Well damn I sure do miss you. Tomorrow is the 27th day of June, alot of things going on. I am sure you will be busy, celebrating Jeremy's Birthday with him. I dont know what getting blowed is in heaven, but just make sure he get there :). I wish you both were here to celebrate. But I guess I am sorta jealous that the 2 of you are together and I cant be there. I am asking you to take time out of your partyin day, so you can share a bit of my happiness with me, you see Bobby, Jon and I are finally gonna do the BIG thing. We are getting married tomorrow at noon, I so hope to feel you there. I know I said never again, but you what a GREAT man he is. I want to be with him forever, as long as this life last. So this is my invite to you, to please join us tomorrow and watch over us till we meet with you again. (Gosh, can you believe I am nervous?) It's weird, just as I wait for Kevin to come home from the Army it's like I am waiting for you to walk by, see you at Crystal's and Chris's, see you walking somewhere, anywhere with the kids so I can share my good news with you. I keep looking but it just makes me sad, for I can never find you. Take care of Bub tomorrow, have a great party, he would of been 20 in earth years, my how quickly you all have grown. I miss you both!
will miss you / Linda Mercer (guest)
im so sry for what happened to you u wil be missed by everyone you are in heaven now which is a better place to be god bless you ill be praying for your family you will not be forgotton ty linda mercer Close